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Rain909
Mar 31, 2012, 05:23 PM
So I was going out with this guy and we were together off and on for 3 months. My mon doesn't like him so she wouldn't let me be with him and he told me to fix it and I told him if I had to fix it then I couldn't be with him for a bit so we broke up and then after I got things together he told me he still needs time and that he takes break ups hard and I'm like what the hell ! Cus we broke up so we could betogether and a few days latter he came to school with a hickey so I blew up on him and he tried to tell me that it was dry skin, but dry skin doesn't turn purple so he was mad that I didn't believe him and now he won't talk to me and it's been 4 weeks. And I'm in love with the guy and he hurt me so I tried to move on but I know I tried to fast because I tried to move on to my best friend who has like me forever, I've known him sense I was 3, but I new being with him didn't feel right and he was going to ask me to prom but I'm grounded so I told him I don't know if I'm going and that it's hard for me to be in a relationship so he said he's going to move on and when I can be in one to let him know and if he's in one then I have to wait. But the thing us I don't want to go out with him and when the time comes were I get a new boyfriend how should I tell my best friend that I don't want to be with him because I feel like I used him

Stellaw
Apr 2, 2012, 07:15 AM
Honesty is the best policy. Have you heard about that? What if you're in a relationship
Where you really love the guy but he's not that into you? Would you want the truth
Or you want him to continue to lie to u?

I made a mistake once when I got into a relationship with my best friend. I've known her since I was 8 years old and she was my first crush and I was her first crush too. Then she became my girlfriend for 6 months. I just know everything about her so I get jealous every time because I know she's a player with her
Past relationships. I know all of that because she was my best friend. She told me everything
Even her intimate relationships with her exes. It just wouldn't work and I ended up losing a girlfriend
And a best friend. I would bring breakfast to her when we were still bestfriends. I would
Understand her always. But when she became my girlfriend, all I wanted was for her to understand
Me and I couldn't stand all her whining. The whining and nagging were all right when she was just my
Best friend because I'm a very good friend. I listened and treated her like a princess.

The jealousy just ate me up and eventually she ended up breaking my heart too because she had
A boyfriend when we were on a break and she lied about it. I only found out that she lied
When I switched on her cellphone and saw messages from her ex of 3 days. So, we broke up for good
After that because it just won't work between us.