rick01675
Mar 29, 2012, 11:19 PM
Hey guys,
Let me make my story short.
I met this girl in 2010, we were close friends. I kind of had feelings for her she was confused(that what she told me). Later one fine day she confess that she made out with some random guy. I was kind of heart broken.
Had a small fight but we were back together as same old friends and she was still "confused" about her feelings for me. One fine day we made out, and after a week we had a big fight. I had sent her a long abusive message and there was no contact after that.
It was hard for me I was not getting over her. I tried lot of waysto get over her. But even then I used to miss her a lot. I broke NC twice called her and spoke to her like loser. She was not ready to patch up.
After 1 year she calls me back asked if we could hang out. I met her and she told me she has a boyfriend now, but will break up soon as its not working. Now we hang out a lot. When I asked her about her "confused" feelings she told it was just a physical attraction she had towards me.
Yesterday night after I dropped her home, she had left her mobile in my car. I had her mobile with me the whole night and was curious to read the message(its not rite I know) and I was shocked to see that she was making out with her boyfriend every other night expect for last night because I had her mobile. She used call him after I dropped her home. She also message other random guys asking them to stay over and naughty naughty messages.
Now I'm totally f*****, now I think I can move on. But before that should I let her go like that. Shall I play? Because I wasted my entire one year thinking of her, depression , stopped going to gym was at home all the time feeling low and depressed.. Should I just let her go?
Now I'm half happy because she is not a sweet and good girl which I was thinking and I can just move on and the other half I'm angry and sad because I had feeling for a sl**. Feels really bad.
My question
1: will I get over soon now(coz rite now I'm kind of OK and strong don't know when I'll be depressed)? If any one has past experience please share.
2: should I be the same old nice guy and use her like she is using me now?
Let me make my story short.
I met this girl in 2010, we were close friends. I kind of had feelings for her she was confused(that what she told me). Later one fine day she confess that she made out with some random guy. I was kind of heart broken.
Had a small fight but we were back together as same old friends and she was still "confused" about her feelings for me. One fine day we made out, and after a week we had a big fight. I had sent her a long abusive message and there was no contact after that.
It was hard for me I was not getting over her. I tried lot of waysto get over her. But even then I used to miss her a lot. I broke NC twice called her and spoke to her like loser. She was not ready to patch up.
After 1 year she calls me back asked if we could hang out. I met her and she told me she has a boyfriend now, but will break up soon as its not working. Now we hang out a lot. When I asked her about her "confused" feelings she told it was just a physical attraction she had towards me.
Yesterday night after I dropped her home, she had left her mobile in my car. I had her mobile with me the whole night and was curious to read the message(its not rite I know) and I was shocked to see that she was making out with her boyfriend every other night expect for last night because I had her mobile. She used call him after I dropped her home. She also message other random guys asking them to stay over and naughty naughty messages.
Now I'm totally f*****, now I think I can move on. But before that should I let her go like that. Shall I play? Because I wasted my entire one year thinking of her, depression , stopped going to gym was at home all the time feeling low and depressed.. Should I just let her go?
Now I'm half happy because she is not a sweet and good girl which I was thinking and I can just move on and the other half I'm angry and sad because I had feeling for a sl**. Feels really bad.
My question
1: will I get over soon now(coz rite now I'm kind of OK and strong don't know when I'll be depressed)? If any one has past experience please share.
2: should I be the same old nice guy and use her like she is using me now?