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relathelp
Mar 29, 2012, 07:51 PM
I was nagging my boyfriend about him ignoring me sometimes, which lead to a fight, which led to us getting into a "break". He said he wanted a week break, but I don't know what to do. We used to hang out almost everyday, talk everyday, but now I haven't seen him, and I don't know whether to talk to him or leave him completely alone.

I have been texting him here and there, getting a few good responses the past couple days, then Ill end the conversation so I try not to annoy him. He'll post something on Facebook, call me hunn, but I am just so confused by the signals.

I miss him, and need a guys/girls opinion on what he would want or what I should do.

Wondergirl
Mar 29, 2012, 08:09 PM
If you are on a "break," you have nothing to do with each other. (Btw, that's not a mature way to handle a relationship.)

relathelp
Mar 29, 2012, 09:04 PM
What part? I don't think a break is that mature either, but I am trying to be mature about the whole situation in the best way that I can.

Wondergirl
Mar 29, 2012, 10:10 PM
I personally would give him space and not contact him or respond to him during the agreed-upon time that was set. If it's a break, why are you contacting each other?

indya
Mar 29, 2012, 11:26 PM
What's the whole point of taking a break if you are still going to keep contact? If he needs a break, give him a clean break.

Otherwise the whole purpose of the break will be lost.