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flirtygirl2000
Mar 28, 2012, 06:54 PM
I like this 8th grade guy that I really like. How do I act and dress to make him like me to or how to ask him out without people over hearing? Both answers are appreciated

flirtygirl2000
Mar 28, 2012, 06:58 PM
I meant to say how to tell a boy you like him on the bus

Fr_Chuck
Mar 28, 2012, 07:07 PM
You don't, you sit by him, talk to him and become friends, let it go from there.

flirtygirl2000
Mar 29, 2012, 06:28 PM
What are the top ways to ask a boy out if you don't know how to talk to a guy

flirtygirl2000
Mar 29, 2012, 06:31 PM
Thanks but he gets on the bus after I do and he always sits 2 seats behind or in front of me. And everyone else sits by me.

ScottGem
Mar 29, 2012, 06:36 PM
Please don't start threads over the same question. Your threads have been merged. If you have any follow-up, please post it as an Answer to this thread. So when he passes you in the aisle say good morning. If you can keep the seat next to you free, ask him if he would like to sit.

But before you do this, you need to ask your parents about dating. I'm suspecting that the 2000 in your account name may indicate the year you were born. If so, that makes you 12 which is really too young to be dating.

flirtygirl2000
Mar 29, 2012, 06:47 PM
K but I don't know if he will sit by me. He sits in the first or second open seat

ScottGem
Mar 30, 2012, 03:30 AM
You won't know until you ask.

flirtygirl2000
Mar 30, 2012, 07:46 PM
I need help. So I'm wondering if I should tell my crush I like him. I get figity around him and I can't talk to him in private. WHAT DO I DO

Alty
Mar 30, 2012, 08:02 PM
Tell him. If he's not interested then he'll tell you. If he is, then he'll tell you. The only way to find out is to ask him, or tell him how you feel.

That's all you can do. There's no magic here. Every other human being on this earth actually has to communicate with the opposite sex in order to get a date, or get them to notice them. You're no different.

flirtygirl2000
Apr 2, 2012, 06:47 PM
Thanks

Alty
Apr 2, 2012, 07:10 PM
You're welcome. Now go talk to him, and then tell us what happened. :)

flirtygirl2000
Apr 14, 2012, 05:58 PM
What do u say to a guy to ask him out it to tell him u like him

Alty
Apr 14, 2012, 06:14 PM
What do u say to a guy to ask him out it to tell him u like him

"I really like you, would you like to go out some time?"

Wondergirl
Apr 14, 2012, 06:20 PM
"I really like you, would you like to go out some time?"
But without the comma splice. :D

What if he says no--or worse, doesn't answer?

flirtygirl2000
Apr 28, 2012, 03:45 PM
Im dating this guy now and I don't know how to talk to him

Alty
Apr 28, 2012, 03:55 PM
Im dating this guy now and i dont know how to talk to him

I hate to sound harsh, I really do. But kiddo, if you're dating him, then you should be able to talk to him, otherwise, why the heck are you dating him?

I realize you're young, and I also know that this boyfriend will not be your last. This is you delving into the dating world. This is not forever, no matter how much you like him, or even think you love him (which kids throw around way too much without knowing what love entails), this will end, probably sooner than later. In fact, I'd give it weeks, months tops, then you'll be onto the next guy, and he'll be onto the next girl. That's how teen "relationships" work.

The fact is, communication is key to a relationship. So, even though this guy won't last, and I'd bet millions on that fact, you should still view this as a learning experience, and part of that learning is learning to communicate. It will help you a lot in the future.

Bottom line, no matter how old you are, young, old, or in between, if you can't talk to the guy you're dating, then you're dating the wrong guy.