I was with Marco for 15months and I trusted him 100% until Xmas finding two sets of the same perfume (1 he gave to me) and the same name kept appearing.. Then this year we didn't have sex for like 2 months and he wouldn't let me round his house... Anyway I added that name Ernesta on Facebook and eventually found out she was his girlfriend too... But he said to her he loves her and that me and him were just friends even though he kissed me and would tell me he loved me too.. He use to also ask me for money and items like iPad etc and I could never say no.. He told her I was lying but she says she believes me yet she still said to him she's not breaking up with him but she can never be happy with him again or trust him . I'm so worried she will get back with him and get even more hurt and he will feel like he's won. This man use to tell me he loved me and wanted to marry me and he was waiting for me all his life... But now he is saying it to her... I don't know how to cope with this:( I never deserved this... Help... somebody out there help :,(

OMGOSH! If you leave the fool alone for 8 solid months you will start to break the spell he has on you. 8 solid months of absolutely NO CONTACT of any kind whatsoever.

Starting NOW, this moment.

What makes you think it's a spell may I ask?

That was a figure of speech. I didn't mean to imply he cast a magic spell over you, but an emotional one. Mainly its your feelings that blinds you and makes you confused as to what you should do to get away from him for life.

After what he has done you still want him back? I was being polite using the analogy of a spell, to keep from using harsher term. Just trying to be nice.

He's a lying,cheating j^^k!
No Contact,whatsoever with either of them;forever!

Respect yourself and leave this in the past.

Thank you guys:)