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domiejoelle
Mar 25, 2012, 08:24 PM
I wasn't even into him in the beginning. He basically begged me to be his girlfriend , told me he was in love with me , sent roses to my house , met my family etc.. I started catching feelings for him and that's when everything went down the drain.. Literally the day after I said I love you back to him for the first time he started acting weird.. I'm 23 and he's 30.. He told me were not on the "same page" and broke up with me.. Now he's back with his ex girlfriend and changed his number.. Why would he do something like this to me? They' were broken up for almost a year and he cheated all over her when they were together.. Please someone help because I feel so hurt and confused..

DoulaLC
Mar 26, 2012, 07:21 AM
He frequently cheated on his girlfriend when they were together and you want to be with him?? Why? I'd say you are far better off that he is not in your life. He may have simply gotten a thrill from the pursuit, but wasn't interested in anything too serious or long term.

Unfortunately it sounds as though you were another one of his conquests until he got back with the girlfriend.

Painful since you had developed feelings for him, but in reality, you are very fortunate.

Give yourself some time to heal.

Fr_Chuck
Mar 26, 2012, 07:25 AM
Yes, he was always cheating on his other girlfriend, so why you would want him in the first place or why she would take him back is beyond me.

This is how he is, expect him to try and come back to you latter.

Fr_Chuck
Mar 26, 2012, 07:25 AM
Yes, he was always cheating on his other girlfriend, so why you would want him in the first place or why she would take him back is beyond me.

This is how he is, expect him to try and come back to you latter.