JoeJohnIarop
Mar 23, 2012, 04:54 AM
We started dating last year in November, and its been great ever since. About a month ago I started noticing that she wouldn't hold my hand, give me hugs, or reply when I say I love you. We have gotten into fights before where she says that I don't let her make her own choices, but her choices always want to go drive around with her slutty friends with 23 year olds (I'm 16, and she's 15), but when I tell her that I don't feel comfortable with her doing that, and I ask if I could go with them, since she says that we should hang out with friends together, and says lets do it, she says no, I'm judgemental, or there's no room, or they don't want to hang out with you.
And I talked to her best friend last night, and she said that they have never said that and she couldn't believe that she said that (my girlfriend). And I never thought she was like that, and when I asked if she still loved me she said that she loves me like a friend, and she still cares about me. But just yesterday we where having so much fun together, she even made me ride a horse. She was holding my hand, she told me she loved me, and she would kiss me.
But then at school the next day we where fine until afternoon she started getting depressed, and wouldn't give me hugs, or a kisses because I don't see her all day and all she would say is get over it and walk away. Then I've also noticed whenever I text her, she never answers and if she does its just stupid one word answers even when I try to start the conversation. Now she went to her friends house last night, and she said she was sorry and that she's a ***** witch she isn't, and was saying why.
Can't we take a break and see how it goes so I could try to love you like I you used too.. What the hell is that supposed to mean? Then we started talking and we're fine and she says she's going to have a drink which we only drank together because I don't trust the d-bags, her friends like to hang out with and who she used to hang out with, who would take advantage of any girl in a sec. So I asked her if it was only her, and her 2 girlfriend, and she said yes, and when I talked to her best friend she said it was only going to be them. Then at 12 she decides to tell me there's 3 guys there and that her friends are getting with 2 of them, and that they just left. Then I asked her what her and the other guy where doing. And she said nothing. Which I some what believe because she's always been honest but with every thing going on, I just don't know.
Also this week, her 2 friends were going to go camping with those same 3 guys. And she asked if she could go a little while ago and she was going to go, and I said that I don't want her to go unless I was invited and. She said why, and claims that she didn't hear that there was guys going and she won't go. So now I asked her to hang out on Saturday when they where supposed to go camping and she said she's busy. Which for once I don't believe her. She said that even though we are taking a break she's not going to get with any guys.
But I have no clue what to do or make her happy, when she won't even hang out with me.. HELP Please.
And I talked to her best friend last night, and she said that they have never said that and she couldn't believe that she said that (my girlfriend). And I never thought she was like that, and when I asked if she still loved me she said that she loves me like a friend, and she still cares about me. But just yesterday we where having so much fun together, she even made me ride a horse. She was holding my hand, she told me she loved me, and she would kiss me.
But then at school the next day we where fine until afternoon she started getting depressed, and wouldn't give me hugs, or a kisses because I don't see her all day and all she would say is get over it and walk away. Then I've also noticed whenever I text her, she never answers and if she does its just stupid one word answers even when I try to start the conversation. Now she went to her friends house last night, and she said she was sorry and that she's a ***** witch she isn't, and was saying why.
Can't we take a break and see how it goes so I could try to love you like I you used too.. What the hell is that supposed to mean? Then we started talking and we're fine and she says she's going to have a drink which we only drank together because I don't trust the d-bags, her friends like to hang out with and who she used to hang out with, who would take advantage of any girl in a sec. So I asked her if it was only her, and her 2 girlfriend, and she said yes, and when I talked to her best friend she said it was only going to be them. Then at 12 she decides to tell me there's 3 guys there and that her friends are getting with 2 of them, and that they just left. Then I asked her what her and the other guy where doing. And she said nothing. Which I some what believe because she's always been honest but with every thing going on, I just don't know.
Also this week, her 2 friends were going to go camping with those same 3 guys. And she asked if she could go a little while ago and she was going to go, and I said that I don't want her to go unless I was invited and. She said why, and claims that she didn't hear that there was guys going and she won't go. So now I asked her to hang out on Saturday when they where supposed to go camping and she said she's busy. Which for once I don't believe her. She said that even though we are taking a break she's not going to get with any guys.
But I have no clue what to do or make her happy, when she won't even hang out with me.. HELP Please.