Ok, for a little over a month now I have been cramping like menstrual cramps everyday.. My last period was short and lite and I will normally cramp a little before and after but this time the cramps haven't gone away.. Also been having terrible headaches and lower backaches but just knocked it off to not sleeping good or work.. I'm tired of feeling like crap is it time that I just go in?. I don't have a reg doc and hate going to ER but I'm to the point I'm about to go in..

You answered your own question - you need to see a Physician.