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mrmurrell3
Mar 15, 2012, 11:44 AM
I've been with my girlfriend for 1 month... and recently she went to Las Vegas for a conference. While I was at work one night, I received a text stating that she is going to a house party. The following morning, she sent me a text stating that she just made it home and was about to shower and then go to a meeting.

Is it fair that I am upset that she went to an all night party? Since we are in a relationship? And what should I do now? For the record, I have never stayed out all night for a party... and I have never been to Las Vegas. Is this wrong for me to be angry?

mmresd
Mar 15, 2012, 12:09 PM
Yes, I think it is safe to assume that the reasoning behind you being mad is because of your own insecurity of your girlfriend being out all night partying. What is wrong with having fun? Just because you haven't had the impulse to do so doesn't mean that other people shouldn't do it. Whether in a relationship or not. Trust your girlfriend, it is not hard to stay up all night in Las Vegas.

Fr_Chuck
Mar 15, 2012, 12:18 PM
Yes you are being jealous either because you felt she was cheating or you never stayed out all night. You have only been together for a month, and she went on a trip. She is being honest and truthful with you about what she is doing

mrmurrell3
Mar 15, 2012, 01:15 PM
Lol... let me begin by saying that I'm far from being insecure. I also want to add that I have stayed out all night, but it was when I was single. One of the main ways for a healthy relationship to grow is respect. I would never, in my right mind, stay out all night if I am involved with someone.

I know what goes on with alcohol... wild parties... I was not born yesterday...

For the two that responded; either you two are under 30; or single... or have had bad relationships.