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Harris2000
Mar 6, 2012, 05:44 PM
I broke up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago and resently I have been looking at him in a different way and I found myself attracted to him. I think he knows it but I'm not sure. I want to ask him out but I'm not to sure about the face to face thing. I need some step bye step instructions on what to do. Can anyone help me?

ScottGem
Mar 6, 2012, 06:20 PM
If there were step by step instructions to love and relationships you wouldn't have all the angst on this site.

Your best bet is to be honest with him and tell him your feelings have changed.

indya
Mar 6, 2012, 11:47 PM
First of all find out whether he's single or not!

You might also want to make sure that he isn't harboring any grudge against you or any other -ve feelings post break up.

Just begin talking casually with him. Like friends. Read his body language and responses. After maintaining a bit of contact and if all goes fine, you can ask him out!!

Harris2000
Mar 7, 2012, 03:16 PM
Thanks guys. It was really helpful, we are going out now, because of my friends but you guys really helped I saw him today and used your tips it really helped and then after lunch apperntly I have a Boyfriend! Dinner Saturday night!! Thank you guys! X

indya
Mar 12, 2012, 11:36 PM
Great! Good luck with the dinner! :)