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jmmurp2
Mar 6, 2012, 08:52 AM
So I've been going out with this girl for a couple weeks now, but we've been "talking" for almost 7 months now. I love her, and she says she loves me which I believe, and somewhat still believe.

About 7 months ago we met on this app called MyYearbook, and we've been talking ever since. I'm a very jealous person and I was checking out her twitter and she kept tweeting to this one guy. Turns out that she was actually dating him for about a month. By this time I was already in love with her, and I wasn't about to give her up and the next month was filled with arguments and tears but she finally broke up with him and starting going out with me.

Yesterday I was bored and started texting her with a different number so she had no clue who she was talking to. I was planning on just messing with her and pretended I was some random dude that was interested in her and that he had gotten her number from a friend. I had asked her if she was single and she said yes. I called her on it and I was yelling at her but then we just kind of stopped talking for a while.

I've been reading around for other people in this situation and a lot of people are saying to break up with her because she's a cheater. That might be a problem because like I said, I'm in love with her. I don't want to break up with her, but if I have to I will. Advice? Please, I need help. :(

odinn7
Mar 6, 2012, 09:36 AM
I don't have much to say here but you wanted to play games with her and now you're paying for it.

So many times I see people on here playing stupid games and then they don't understand where it all went wrong.

mmresd
Mar 6, 2012, 11:50 AM
Yes, be a nice person and break up with her. Stop accepting your jealousy and start working at it, if you can't do it on your own look for professional help. Playing with fire will get you burned, if you didn't enjoy it this time then learn your lesson and don't do it again.

talaniman
Mar 6, 2012, 06:32 PM
She may be a cheater, but its you and your insecurity that's a game player. Neither is good news.