So I met her at Salsa lessons, we danced then I saw her the next weekend and gave me her number, the week after that we went out and kissed, we have gone out for about 2-3 times and last weekend we slept together, afterwards, we started to talked and she told me that she has only been with 2 people both times one night stand, in different states... and that she has never had a boyfriend, she says she's really picky, when I asked her why did you pick me then? She said because I like you... so I'm thinking maybe her being unexperienced in the relationship field she doesn't know any better, so how do I know if she wants the same things as I do? The times we have gone out we have basically talked about work, and silly stuff nothing serious, up until after we slept together..

Look for subtle signs. Read her body language. Ask her questions. And most importantly make sure you have same definition and expectations from the relationship.