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anonymousdude
Feb 22, 2012, 11:43 PM
So I met this girl over the weekend. And she seems nice and she's really pretty. She has 2 kids. But I don't mind. I've been texting her. But, sometimes she stops texting me. I think maybe because I think I say something dumb on accident or something. I'm thinking of not texting her today to give her some space. But, I don't want her to think that I'm not interested in her. Right now we're just friends. And maybe she doesn't even know I like her, because we just met. But... I'd like to date her.

Should I text her today? Or give her some space and not text her for a day or two? And what should I talk about with her? How can I get to know her? How long should I wait to ask her out?

mmresd
Feb 23, 2012, 12:12 AM
How about getting to know her first? You just met, why such high expectation over someone you know nothing about? Take a chill pill, be friends, get to know her, and then see if she is actually your type.

scipioafricanus
Feb 24, 2012, 12:32 AM
Very Simple. If the nature of the communication with her mirrors the you post, the you've already messed up mate. Live the moment, don't analyze it. Hope it helps.

scratchNmyhead
Feb 24, 2012, 05:47 PM
People over think and over analyze texting.. try picking up the phone and call her. She may not be a big texter! Ask her to dinner! Shouldn't be too worried about especially if you just met her

talaniman
Feb 26, 2012, 12:41 AM
She has two kids, so ask her out voice to voice and tell her you will spring for the baby sitter. I don't understand texting, but if you can text you can call right?