My girlfriend is leaving me. I've begged, and said I would change, and I'm sorry that I hurt her. I've given up so much for her. My car, all my prized possessions for her. She said I wasn't treating her good, and I never kept to my word. She cheated on me before. I caught her with a another guy, and she begged me not to break up with her. So I didn't because I love her so much. She wanted me to trust her after what she had done. I tried and tried it was so hard but still did my best, I do online gaming, so I got her to give it a try, and since then she met guys playing online and she shows more attention to them than me. She's always on BBM talking to them, anyway she went down to visit her mom and she been meeting new guys and going jollying, and she never had time to talk to me on what's up.

Even her mom said she getting out of hand with the jollying and she said I'm old enough I'll do what I want to do, and she been going out almost every night with her new friends . And then out the blue she asks me to put money into her account and I was willing to do it because she said she doesn't have food and I do care about her, so I tried but just had problems having the transfer. The money didn't go through so she getting angry, she tells me its over but wants me to go fetch her and bring her back and get her stuff and leave. She wants me to put money in for her, and all I do is beg for her not to leave me and I messed up, and I'll fix myself, but she doesn't want to. She just says no, please just put money in so I can get food. I love this girl so much I'm willing to give up anything for her, and now that she's leaving me.

I'm hurting so badly I don't even know were to turn or step. All I do is fall apart. I need advice I don't know what to do please help. I still want to be with her.

Damn guy you have me crying at your sad story. I feel your pain, but until you wake up, pack her stuff and get it to her and tell her good bye, AND KEEP YOUR MONEY, she will keep using you like yesterdays stale pizza!

Sorry dude, she wants to party, and have her fun at your expense, and that's exactly what she is doing. Now I don't know who is right or wrong in this, and it really doesn't matter. Not at all! What matters is you stand up and get your life back, and let her go in your mind, as she is gone anyway isn't she. STOP begging, right now, and take the right steps to get her out of YOUR life forever, and keep your money in your pocket.

I mean she seems to have money to jolly around with guys and party with friends, so its not food she needs your money for. That's just what she tells YOU!! Nobody is that stupid. Get yourself under control and get some possessions and a life my friend, and a car.

Let her worry about her own food, and I bet she isn't close to starving. Stop being used by a chick that dumped you, and left you for the jolly life. Haven't you given her enough?

There are a lot of gals out there,m sure she was not meant to be yours probably no future with her even.