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Silver Lining
Feb 17, 2012, 01:03 AM
Hi all,

I have been married for 5 years. My husband and I were classmates, fell in love and married immediately after graduation. I am crazily in love with him and so is he. Off lately, I have been dreaming of random unknown guys being affectionate towards me. They hug me, kiss me on the forehead, cuddle etc, in my dream. I feel very good but I don't understand y I get such dreams and what can I do to stop?

indya
Feb 17, 2012, 05:01 AM
They are just dreams. Ignore them and they will go away. I've sometimes had such kind of dreams too, being intimate with complete stranger and all that.

It's just your overworked brain mixing things up. Relax and think about lovely things before going to bed.

Silver Lining
Feb 17, 2012, 05:14 AM
Indya,, thank you,,
Well, I know that dreams are your subconscious mind acting,, I have ahd nightmares every time I think of something bad before I go to sleep,, so I have made it a habit to think of something nice before I go to bed. Every night I plan for the next day after I close my eyes, I think of what to cook, what chores I have to complete, etc. still I get such dreams. I want to know why... is this some kind of an emotional set back?

tickle
Feb 17, 2012, 06:16 AM
You are probably just a very romantic person; enjoy the dreams. They don't do us any harm, and only enrich our waking moments.

Silver Lining
Feb 28, 2012, 12:35 AM
Hey tickle,, that's sweet of u,, even my hubby says m romantic and equally emotional... like you said,, those dreams do make me feel good,, I just didn't want to feel like m losing my interest in my husband,, hence the post...