ecervantes3
Feb 15, 2012, 05:51 PM
My boyfriend and I me in high school 2 years ago and we dated for a year and a half. A few months into the relationship he would message girls on myspace and always flirted and got girls numbers and pictures of them. I would always confront him a about t and he would simply say sorry and that he would never do it again. I believed him. There was a point in our relationship where we broke up for a week and he ignored me and was talking to a girl as if she was his girlfriend. We got back together, but his flirting did not stop.
I dealt with him flirting up until the summer of 2011 where he stopped flirting and I was finally his first and only priority. He called me 24/7, took me on romantic dates and was completely faithful. I would sometimes snoop through his phone and see if I would find what I did in the past, but I did not.
Then a week before my birthday in November I found out he had a Facebook and was flirting once again and getting numbers. I was so outraged by this and I did not confront him I just dumped him. The pain was horrible because to me that is cheating. He always accused me of cheating and being unfaithful just to hide his insecurities and cheating addictions.
We broke up and days later I found out he had moved on and started getting close with a girl he met on Facebook. A month later she was his girlfriend. Sad part is he kept it from me for that's month of November while trying to work things out with me and saying how much he loved me. In December he text me saying how he could no longer be my friend or talk to me because his girlfriend did not like it. Wow is what I thought because he basically said "I respect her more than you" I cried my eyes out for days and my anger and hatred for him grew. Yet I still loved him. Just recently he broke up with his new girlfriend who by the way was ashamed to be seen with her because she was on the heavy side.
Now he wants to come back and he once again made me his 1st priority... I love him to death and he is super sweet to me and is doing everything possible to win me back. What should I do? People can change I know that because I know a couple is super happy now and he cheated on her more than once, but now they are going on their 7th year together and they could not be anymore happier.
Please someone help me, I have tried to move on but it isn't the same what me and him have is a perfect bond. He is my best friend and I am his and I know he loves me. He has shared very personal things with me that not even his family knows about. Please help me someone.
I dealt with him flirting up until the summer of 2011 where he stopped flirting and I was finally his first and only priority. He called me 24/7, took me on romantic dates and was completely faithful. I would sometimes snoop through his phone and see if I would find what I did in the past, but I did not.
Then a week before my birthday in November I found out he had a Facebook and was flirting once again and getting numbers. I was so outraged by this and I did not confront him I just dumped him. The pain was horrible because to me that is cheating. He always accused me of cheating and being unfaithful just to hide his insecurities and cheating addictions.
We broke up and days later I found out he had moved on and started getting close with a girl he met on Facebook. A month later she was his girlfriend. Sad part is he kept it from me for that's month of November while trying to work things out with me and saying how much he loved me. In December he text me saying how he could no longer be my friend or talk to me because his girlfriend did not like it. Wow is what I thought because he basically said "I respect her more than you" I cried my eyes out for days and my anger and hatred for him grew. Yet I still loved him. Just recently he broke up with his new girlfriend who by the way was ashamed to be seen with her because she was on the heavy side.
Now he wants to come back and he once again made me his 1st priority... I love him to death and he is super sweet to me and is doing everything possible to win me back. What should I do? People can change I know that because I know a couple is super happy now and he cheated on her more than once, but now they are going on their 7th year together and they could not be anymore happier.
Please someone help me, I have tried to move on but it isn't the same what me and him have is a perfect bond. He is my best friend and I am his and I know he loves me. He has shared very personal things with me that not even his family knows about. Please help me someone.