JussBizzNiss
Feb 14, 2012, 06:18 PM
Okay so I have this female friend id say we've grown to be pretty close. She has a BF, at first who cares, but now its getting weird. Here's the story
Back in early November I had a girlfriend we had a nice relationship everything was cool. One day I took the bus home from work and met a new girl. I was sitting in the back of the bus alone and she sat in the front, she came way to the back and sat a seat behind me, then proceeded to ask if she could share seats with me. I said "sure". Thinking I shouldn't pass up the chance we exchanged numbers. A few days Later she was coming over, she through conversation I found me. She had a boyfriend (I did not mention my gf) on about her 3rd or 4th visit, my girlfriend just dropped by and busted me (only hanging out). Anyway I told her we are only friends but she stayed pissed and about 2 weeks later we parted ways.
The new girl however, was unmoved by this and continues to come to my house. She's got a BF but has been spending time with ME ALL DAY, EVERYDAY for about 3 months. She comes over, we really hang out and do friend stuff (baking cakes. watching movies, drinking, eating she even cooks for me. We talk about sex a lot, and no topic is off limits in our conversation) I haven't spent any money on her and we haven't gone out because my car has recently been broken, so I don't think she's using me (if so for what?).
I just kept telling myself, "shes got a BF so she's pretty much off limits" but one day I thought What the heck is her BF doing? Why is she always with me and not him? Then he called one day while she was over the phone was on speaker he asked where was she and didn't reply quick enough. And he said " you're with him aren't you? Surprised the hell out of me and a huge argument ensued, she hung up on him... he called back to back she ignored him... Then I realized his ring tone and further realized that she had been ignoring his calls like that since we met. He broke up with her over me once, and came back. Recently she told ME he broke up with her again because she told him, he no longer makes her happy. I think they will get back together.
I've never made any moves on her because initially I was only looking to be friends and I didn't want to be a ****head GF thief but now as we have grown closer and closer I think I may want a bit more. It just seems like we would be a good match because we share a lot of the same interest, and have a lot in common maybe almost too much. I was content at first, but people keep asking me if we are together and its kind of got me thinking we should be. I don't know what I should do.
I haven't had a GF since the last one and the new girl knows I haven't been with anyone else. Also I told her after the last girl. I just wanted to take things easy relationship wise. But she's always around and we keep getting closer and closer. What do you guys think she's thinking. Am I the idiot here or what?
... ADVISE?
Back in early November I had a girlfriend we had a nice relationship everything was cool. One day I took the bus home from work and met a new girl. I was sitting in the back of the bus alone and she sat in the front, she came way to the back and sat a seat behind me, then proceeded to ask if she could share seats with me. I said "sure". Thinking I shouldn't pass up the chance we exchanged numbers. A few days Later she was coming over, she through conversation I found me. She had a boyfriend (I did not mention my gf) on about her 3rd or 4th visit, my girlfriend just dropped by and busted me (only hanging out). Anyway I told her we are only friends but she stayed pissed and about 2 weeks later we parted ways.
The new girl however, was unmoved by this and continues to come to my house. She's got a BF but has been spending time with ME ALL DAY, EVERYDAY for about 3 months. She comes over, we really hang out and do friend stuff (baking cakes. watching movies, drinking, eating she even cooks for me. We talk about sex a lot, and no topic is off limits in our conversation) I haven't spent any money on her and we haven't gone out because my car has recently been broken, so I don't think she's using me (if so for what?).
I just kept telling myself, "shes got a BF so she's pretty much off limits" but one day I thought What the heck is her BF doing? Why is she always with me and not him? Then he called one day while she was over the phone was on speaker he asked where was she and didn't reply quick enough. And he said " you're with him aren't you? Surprised the hell out of me and a huge argument ensued, she hung up on him... he called back to back she ignored him... Then I realized his ring tone and further realized that she had been ignoring his calls like that since we met. He broke up with her over me once, and came back. Recently she told ME he broke up with her again because she told him, he no longer makes her happy. I think they will get back together.
I've never made any moves on her because initially I was only looking to be friends and I didn't want to be a ****head GF thief but now as we have grown closer and closer I think I may want a bit more. It just seems like we would be a good match because we share a lot of the same interest, and have a lot in common maybe almost too much. I was content at first, but people keep asking me if we are together and its kind of got me thinking we should be. I don't know what I should do.
I haven't had a GF since the last one and the new girl knows I haven't been with anyone else. Also I told her after the last girl. I just wanted to take things easy relationship wise. But she's always around and we keep getting closer and closer. What do you guys think she's thinking. Am I the idiot here or what?
... ADVISE?