I was dating this girl for about a year. I thought we were the best couple ever. She told me I was the best thing that ever happened to her. She told me I was her one and only. She said only my family will love you like I do. She said she knows she couldn't be happy with anybody else. She thought she was pregnant and we were looking at getting married. Well I deployed for 6 months and two months into the deployment we were fine and she was still saying this stuff. Telling me stuff that made me feel like the best guy ever. But then she broke up with me saying she couldn't trust me and that it would just make things harder cause I was coming back and leaving to go to another base. But a few days after we broke up she said that I was her everything and all she wanted was me. But then a few more weeks went by and she started talking to me less while I was deployed. She started talking to somebody else saying he makes her happier than I ever did. I tried so hard to make her happy and now somebody makes her happier than I ever did and I am back from my deployment and she is already living with him and she has a 3 year old daughter. I feel like I am not good enough for anybody and no girl will ever make me happy as she did when we were together. She was the best thing that ever happened to me and I feel so lost without her. I just don't know what to do. She won't even see or talk to me even though I am back from deployment. Please let me know what I should do?

She's obviously thrown you out of her life. And I am so sorry you have to go through this terrible time. But there isn't much you can do in terms of getting her back.

I know you feel that you won't be able to love again the same way or have a same great relationship with somebody else, but trust me on this one, you will come out of this and find love once more.

Just take a break from her. Don't try to contact her. Devote all your time and energy on some other activity. Yes, initially it will be tough and it will take time to heal. But once you are over it you'll be much better off!