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Marysiaa13
Feb 12, 2012, 03:58 PM
I am 13 and I have been friends with this really cute boy that I met about a year ago , I am really close with him , I did really really like him , but then he broke my heart because of a really *****y girl , then I fell in love with another boy he did the same breaking my heart , now I think I am falling in love with the 1st boy again , I talk to him everyday , I can tell him anything , he is like my best friend out of the boys , he is 14 a year older than me , he seems really shy and doesn't have much confidence about himself , he is slovakian,he often learns me some of his language , I normally see him around school and we chat and playfight or something , he goes to my MMA (mixed martial arts) class too , but now I am really confused because I think I ruined it with him , it seemed like he liked me a little but because he is so shy I didin't realise at first , the one of his mates likes me and he sort of stopped :( , we would talk on skype at night for hour's , but because I am so close to him I said to him " I love you , but like my brother nothing else , you are always a good friend to me" and now I think I have ruined it :( because I friend zoned him , is there anyway of getting him out out the friend zone ? I don't know how to , I really need help !

zimmeh
Feb 12, 2012, 04:10 PM
Tell him the truth.

snowmist69
Feb 12, 2012, 04:12 PM
Yes, just keep talking to him and being his friend. In truth you are at that weird age and it will get better. Don't push being more than friends on him let that come on its own. You two have plenty of time. My advice may not sound or be what you want to hear, just talking from experience. If it is meant to be it will happen and a person can tell how you feel by what your eyes says and your body language. I think what you did was give each other time to slow down and not move to fast. It will work out I promise. Remember do not push!

laels
Apr 26, 2012, 11:20 AM
U should talk to him. If he did like you in the beginning then he will understand, although he may not like you anymore... :(
Make sure that you make it clear to him that if he says he doesn't like u, u still want to be his friend. You do don't you?
I know its really hard, but if he really is your best friend, or even a really close friend, he will understand; to some extent.
Best of luck