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MegaJam
Feb 12, 2012, 07:45 AM
I'm 14 and in 1st year high school. I'm not gay at all but there's something in him that makes me what to be with him. Like always be there with him. But now we are not friends anymore. I don't know what happen. But in the start of high school he started to be so mean to me. In some occasion with his other friend he would kind of joke around that I like him that I'm gay for him... So I don't know. And the summer before high school we would Skype all the time and there was this time that I went to our friends house and for some reason I ended up laying down on him chest while our friends were playing PS3. And in the same house I feed him. So how will I know?

talaniman
Feb 12, 2012, 08:43 PM
This isn't about being "gay" for someone. Its about someone that no longer treats you as a friend, and staying away from you. Leave him alone, and make better friends.

circles102
Feb 19, 2012, 12:38 AM
Dude, I know how you feel, the Same thing happened to me, word for word, except the laying on his chest thing wouldn't be weird where I come from, just a thing with my school. That feeling of wanting to be with him is the feeling of friendship and its awefull when people wreck that. He's not gay for you, your just comfortable around each other. I hope he stops acting like that, my friend didn't, and I hope you realise that even the ones you like the most can be mean.