My dad is someone I have never new and I need to find him,he does not know I exist, but I know he does,I only know his first name and the color of hair he has,I also know the place he worked 13 years ago,but that place has shut down. I would email the people that used to own it but I have no idea how to contact them because I can't find the website to their old restaurant. Am I screwed?? Please help me,I am only thirteen and I really want a father,I am so desprite to find him! Please??

First he is the man who sleep with your mother, he is a bio dad. But not a real parent, and why are you desperate to find someone who may curse at you for finding him, deny you are his and so on.
Do you have a step dad in your life?

At 13 we can not help you even if we could, but no one can with that little of information.
Most likely you mom knows a lot more, last name, where his family was from or more, Friends they had in common at the time and more.

Keep on looking for him ! Have you tried asking your mom? Anyway find more clues and details!! Try your best it's worth it

Im having the a similar issue to yours. But I am 17. I know my "fathers" family and hopefully I get info on him. Hopefully I will be able to put child support on him for all the years he has missed out. ALL 17 of them!

Im having the a simular issue to yours. But i am 17. I know my "fathers" family and hopefully i get info on him. Hopefully i will be able to put child support on him for all the years he has missed out. ALL 17 of them!


You can't "put" child support on him. Your MOTHER could have and in some places, still can, obtain a support order until you are out of College.

Why didn't she?