Ok well I don't know what to do. I'm 18 and have been with my husband for 3 1\2 years, and married 2 years I have one son with him that is 2 years old, and I got with my boyfriend when I was 15 got married when I was 16. He is nice but kind of lazy he lost his job about a month ago and hasn't really looked for a new one.. He doesn't really do any thing but sleep and watch movies and play ps3. I do love him.

But he doesn't really ever tell me I'm pretty or anything like that. I have told him if he does think I am if he could just say it every once in awhile. But you know how that go's. Everybody has always told me that I could do better. I have only been with him and one other guy that was his best friend and he cheated on me.. So I have trust issues and have tried not to be to jealous..

My sister's boyfriend has always like me and always said he would drop any thing and everything to be with me.. everybody said I could get any one I wanted why would I stay with my husband.. But I don't know if what I dealing with is worth giving up on my husband I love him but think I got in to getting married to early. I don't want to leave him. But than again I do I have been think about this for a long time. Please help I'm so confused on what I should do.

You guys got married at 16? That's pretty early and considering you guys have a son that another thing but hey! You love him :) That's a great thing but it seems that you are unappreciated by him. Tell him your feelings, don't chicken out and try to keep it serious. Ask him about why he's not looking for a job. Tell him that your hurt and feel unappreciated. If he tries to blow it off then tell him that maybe this isn't working out. Does he have any problems at home or family? That might be the reason. Just talk it out, maybe ask your mom/family to take care of your son while you two go on a trip.Spice up your love life LOL Maybe you should also compliment HIM :) He could also feel this way you never know. Plus if things don't work out get away for a while. Stay with a friend and just hang out! Your only 18! You have so much to look forward to! Never let anyone else make your decisions. And about your sisters boyfriend, maybe you should let her know that he likes someone else. Her finding out that you knew that he had feelings for you could ruin your relationship with her. GOOD LUCK :D

For sure cheating is not the answer nor letting your friend decide your course of actions. I think you do whatever it takes to help make a happy home, even if you work and make this fellow a house dad. A month is hardly time to panic, and that may well be why he cools it and takes unemployment, or waits to be recalled. What type of job did he have, and do YOU work?

All couples go through glitches and down times, and usually it takes years of growing and maturity to be able to relate, and understand how to work together, and get through those tough times. Kind of hard with the restless heart of youth, but a couple that works together stays together, and grows together.

Patience is the best teacher, as you both learn how to treat each other, and talk to each other. Don't be distracted by your own fears, or insecurities, or frustrations when things are not going so well. And don't be tempted to cross the lines of good behavior. Takes time, so relax, and love each others even if the words are few and far between.

You need to work with your husband, even thinking of a boy who is dating your sister is off limits in too many ways. You married way to young and now have to learn what you needed 4 more years of dating to find out.

But you get counseling, you go turn the TV off and the game and tell husband he needs to go out every day and find a job.