lunamaria
Feb 8, 2012, 10:47 AM
I broke up with my boyfriend in November, we stay on and off during the holidays when he was saying he miss me, love me and do not want to stop any contact with me, the reason of the break up in my side was him hanging all the time with this girl who supposedly had a boyfriend, but was constantly calling and texting my bioyfriend knowing we were together, I express several time the way I was feeling but he always put this kind of excuses, in his side he said he was enjoying his freedom, going out with his friends including this girl was a way according to him to keep himself busy and not thinking about me. In the begginning *I believe him, until a lot of friend started to tell me that they see them together every single weekend in clubs and bars, week night dinning, when I talked to him about it he said we are just friends. This past weekend I was devastated my heart shrunk after I said goodbye to him on Friday next to his dad bed (who is in hospice care) he said he love me and bye, that was Friday night around 10pm, well Saturday morning I call him to see how his dad was doing and he never respond my calls, didn't hear from him after 6:30pm on Sunday, he didn't even said I got your messages nothing, then I find out he spent the weekend with the same girl I always complaint about, the same girl he keep deniyong any relationship, the same girl he still said they are just friends, I was so devastated I was just trying to look at his eyes trying to get some information from him but he was so cold. I can not understan why people need to lie why keep lying instead of accepting that they decided to move on? why is so difficult to tell the truth.