After 11 years of have my daughter every weekend after splitting with her mother she has rejected me. It has been a uphill battle the whole 11 years.she he mother makes her feel guilty for loving me, she is not albe to take gifts home, unable to speak to me freely on the phone when I call her.

She had began to lie to me as a result has caused a huge row and as a result she has turned her back on me.

This is such a long story and I'm not a good writer, it feels like there have been a death in my heart. :(

Don't give up. What your ex appears to be doing is parental alienation. That is horrible to put a child through that. Also by forcing the child to decide its just wrong. What you need to do is keep the faith and remind your daughter that you are there for her. At 11 children are going through an identity crisis. Their bodies are changing and their minds are molding into adulthood. If she wishs not to come over be sure she knows your door is always open and keep up with the phone calls and birthday events as best as you can. Reassure her that all is not lost and that anytime she wishs to change her mind your open to it.

You should have filed years ago in court, but yes, the other parent is doing what is referred to as parental alienation and at times it can be used against her in court.

You may want to talk to a local attorney as to options you have.