I feel for you... I also have a senior son who is working so many hours a week. He has a pickup and a quad which his dad purchaced for him. I'm a single mom now. I've been debating about making him pay his own cell phone bill as he has little or nothing to do with me. I love him very much... But it is very tough living with the attitude I get from my son. I love him so much that sometimes I get clouded on what is right and wrong behavior... I just want him to be nice to me... I read an article on line here that stated boys separate from there mom's? It was helpful, but doesn't ease the pain that I'm feeling and sounds like your trying to make the best decision for you teen to. I really hope and pray all will work out with time.

It's really NOT about the bar...