Hi, my daughter and son had a falling out the summer before last (first time) and she hasn't talked to me since. Every time (and it's seldom ever now)I try to talk to her, she tells me that she doesn't want to talk to me, yet she is talking to my son now; go figure. I know I spoiled. When she was living at home she called 911 on me because I wouldn't let her go to an all night party with her boyfriend and she was just 16. My son just had a little girl with his significant girlfriend (whom will be marrying her) and he thought she would talk to me because she said she didn't care if I was there at the hospital at the same time. He handed me the phone after he called her from the hospital and I said "Hi honey, I am a new grandmother again and you are a new aunt; I'm so excited and she told me to get off the phone because she didn't want to talk to me; it broke my heart. I, for all this time, don't know why she is mad at me.

Certainly your son (her brother) knows?