View Full Version : Why does my girlfriend hate me?
Space52
Jan 28, 2012, 03:36 PM
We've been going out for two plus years, and we just moved in a few months ago, and as of late, she's been saying she hates me. And that she's stuck and if she could she would leave me. But then hours later she would say sorry. I don't what's going on, please help.
talaniman
Jan 28, 2012, 06:14 PM
Seems she has a pattern you didn't see before, so don't take it personally until she leaves. That's how I would handle it, but after a while, I would have to tell her "Please don't say it, unless you mean it, because my heart sinks at those words!". Or something straight up honest like that. Communicate when things are normal, and calm, and adjust accordingly.
yawpac
Jan 30, 2012, 03:03 PM
Is she working or at home?some times boredom and stress from house chores can result in that,but if she always up and going she will even yearn to see you at after work.also try to introduce new stuff in you love life... I believe by now you know her favourites,introduce them now in you love life.
mmresd
Jan 30, 2012, 06:11 PM
Sit down with her calmly and TALK about why is having those claustophobic feelings, and that they are hurting you. You can only get out of this issue through communication. Be the least controlling you can be as possible.