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alanad123
Jan 26, 2012, 10:21 AM
See the thing is, I really like this guy and I'm sure he still likes me, he's 18 and I'm 17 and I don't know how to tell my mum or dad, I've had other boyfriends but my parents have never known, now I'm mature enough to tell them but I just don't know how to, we have been seeing each other but stopped because I could get to spend time with him because this problem with my mum and dad, pease help, I love him and I really don't want to loose him again?

talaniman
Jan 26, 2012, 11:26 AM
Just start with your mom, and ask her if she wants to meet this fellow you really like. She can deal with your dad!

Fr_Chuck
Jan 26, 2012, 12:56 PM
Ok you are 17, do you live in a area or culture where dating is not allowed ?

You just tell mom that you have a boyfriend.

alanad123
Jan 26, 2012, 04:22 PM
I try but they're really strict and sometimes I wish they would just leave me alone and actually let me have a life!

Fr_Chuck
Jan 26, 2012, 04:46 PM
You can have a life, but you have to be part of it, hiding and lying about things is not.

alanad123
Jan 30, 2012, 10:09 AM
I'm really finding it so hard to build up the courage to tell my mum about my boyfriend and its really stressing me, if I don't tell them I won't be able to see him much, I'm just worried about they're reaction and all the questions they will ask me, I really need help here, can yous give me answers with Helpful detail?

talaniman
Jan 30, 2012, 10:51 AM
You are making this harder than it needs to be.

alanad123
Jan 30, 2012, 03:27 PM
OK, now that I've told them I feel really strange, there's this weird feeling inside me like I'm not dads little girl anymore, I don't like this feeling, what is this feeling? Can anyone help?

talaniman
Jan 30, 2012, 05:06 PM
Yes something has changed, as you are about to see whether an adult independent female can stands up for the decisions she makes against some strong opposition. Its called growing up. It's a change for both you, and your parents. How will everyone adjust? That will come, be prepared.