My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years our sex life has never been that great but he has used every excuse in the book we moved in together a year ago we had sex 4 time in a year he is good to me in every way excepted in the bed room I don't know what to do I wonted to marry him but I don't know about know he is 48 and I am 51 my sex drive is great I am at a loss.

He's getting to the age that he might have medical issues causing this...

Like, has he even had a physical recently? Any medical issues? Any medications he's on?

There is a whole LOT of things that have to all be working right before you can raise the periscope.