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Zachary_Dixon
Jan 22, 2012, 02:36 PM
All right so, There's a girl that I fell in love with a year and half ago, and things been okay and all. She has a boyfriend for 4 years now, and I met her on the 2nd year they've been dating. Lately, her boyfriend hasn't been paying her any attention and made up excuses when she asks for him to come over to her house. So, I've been there for her non stop since the first day I've met her. She's told me she gave him tons and tons of chances to redeem himself but he hasn't showed any improvement. A couple of days ago, I went to her house one day to meet her mother, grandmother and little brother and they all loved me. I went there to be with her and I'm taking her out onto a date in a couple of days now. During when I was telling her how much she meant to me and I loved her.. She kissed me and we continued kissing. I was worried at first and happy the same time and she told me she didn't regret it one bit ( she still doesn't. ) She told me she wants to be with me more than ever now and cried on the phone when I went home that day and told me she chose me (on the inside I wanted to jump up and down ) so 3 days ago she told her boyfriend she wants time to her self to think and broke it off with him. A day after that, I went over to her house and we watched movies together and kissed, then out of the blue she told me she wants to slow down and she's not ready for a change like this. I was depressed at first but I realized how she meant and respected her for that. So she got back with her boyfriend, giving him another chance to make things betters like paying more attention and seeing her more often and all.. And I felt like I was left out into the dirt by her but she still feels the same about me and really deep down she wants to be with me. What should I do now?