gnowine
Jan 22, 2012, 10:07 AM
I had a huge fight with my mother. I'm 23 years old, and I was living from 17 to 23 alone on my apartment, due to my financial problems and losing my job, I had to go back to my mom.
Problem 1.
So I ordered a guy to check out my apartment about my furnitures which I don't need so he can throw them away, when he arrived I showed him every furniture pieces that I need throwing. (closet, bed, etc)
After showing it to him, my mom was there okay? she went to the guy and showed the same thing to the guy again, what I showed literally 2 minutes ago.
I got angry because, what am I? Stupid? I showed the guy 2 minutes ago what I need throwing and you say and show the same stuffs.
Problem 2.
We are broke, my mom is working and she is in debt. I will start my new job at February the first. And I offered her to pay everything with my February salary which I will get.
And she started crying and crying. And I got mad because , yes , I know we are in a deeep ****, but what should we do? Cry and moan, and be all depressed the whole time? Or better, take a deep breath, and get by and hope for a better coming month? I don't see the reason of being depressed, yes , I am depressed with all the moving and losing my job, but I got one now, but it just ****s up my mind that she can't see the positive side that is coming.
So we argued again.
Problem 3.
She said I am just using her for money. And I exploded, I was really pissed,I tried to talk to her, but she took her stuffs and left, so I chased her at the street and I yelled :PLEASE , PLEASE , LISTEN TO ME, just one ****ing time, she ignores me and she said that she doesn't want to.
How can somebody be so stubborn, or lets say so blinded, not to see that I'm begging her to stop walking and listen to me for a change.
Am I that bad?
Problem 1.
So I ordered a guy to check out my apartment about my furnitures which I don't need so he can throw them away, when he arrived I showed him every furniture pieces that I need throwing. (closet, bed, etc)
After showing it to him, my mom was there okay? she went to the guy and showed the same thing to the guy again, what I showed literally 2 minutes ago.
I got angry because, what am I? Stupid? I showed the guy 2 minutes ago what I need throwing and you say and show the same stuffs.
Problem 2.
We are broke, my mom is working and she is in debt. I will start my new job at February the first. And I offered her to pay everything with my February salary which I will get.
And she started crying and crying. And I got mad because , yes , I know we are in a deeep ****, but what should we do? Cry and moan, and be all depressed the whole time? Or better, take a deep breath, and get by and hope for a better coming month? I don't see the reason of being depressed, yes , I am depressed with all the moving and losing my job, but I got one now, but it just ****s up my mind that she can't see the positive side that is coming.
So we argued again.
Problem 3.
She said I am just using her for money. And I exploded, I was really pissed,I tried to talk to her, but she took her stuffs and left, so I chased her at the street and I yelled :PLEASE , PLEASE , LISTEN TO ME, just one ****ing time, she ignores me and she said that she doesn't want to.
How can somebody be so stubborn, or lets say so blinded, not to see that I'm begging her to stop walking and listen to me for a change.
Am I that bad?