Shocked_30
Jan 20, 2012, 04:03 PM
My fiancé of 8 years broke up with me in November when I was 5 months pregnant. He had just returned from a 2 month trip to L.A where he was trying to get contacts & find work in the film industry. We were living together in the UK, and he knew I was carrying his baby before he left.
Over the Xmas holiday I discovered (via Facebook) that he had met someone out there - and had apparently fallen in love with her. This he denied, before finally admitting it to me. I'm 30 years old - this girl is only 20.
Further to this, he returned to L.A on new years eve (for business apparently), and I have since found out that they have in fact got married whilst he has been there.
Shock!
He has made no secret of his wish to live out there and become this big-shot film director, but this seems a very extreme thing to do so soon after our break up - I have no doubt that he probably 'loves' her, but the fact is I am still very much pregnant with his baby & I don't know if this girl even knows of my existence, or knows about the baby!
Is this a shotgun wedding to get a visa/green card? And if so can he now stay out there and never come back? How do I make sure I get financial support from him? How do I handle the fact that his family may know and haven't told me? Can I trust them?
He is due to fly home next week, but I have a sneaking suspicion that he won't be on the plane.
What would you do in this situation?
Thanks in advance.
Over the Xmas holiday I discovered (via Facebook) that he had met someone out there - and had apparently fallen in love with her. This he denied, before finally admitting it to me. I'm 30 years old - this girl is only 20.
Further to this, he returned to L.A on new years eve (for business apparently), and I have since found out that they have in fact got married whilst he has been there.
Shock!
He has made no secret of his wish to live out there and become this big-shot film director, but this seems a very extreme thing to do so soon after our break up - I have no doubt that he probably 'loves' her, but the fact is I am still very much pregnant with his baby & I don't know if this girl even knows of my existence, or knows about the baby!
Is this a shotgun wedding to get a visa/green card? And if so can he now stay out there and never come back? How do I make sure I get financial support from him? How do I handle the fact that his family may know and haven't told me? Can I trust them?
He is due to fly home next week, but I have a sneaking suspicion that he won't be on the plane.
What would you do in this situation?
Thanks in advance.