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cee.jay_neon
Jan 20, 2012, 02:54 AM
Well fyi... I'm 13... and the moment I saw him come into my first period class... I knew I was going to LOVE him. We started talking at first then we dated homecoming week :)! He bought me a mum with his and my name on it. He even got had one too!

Well that week some chick started flirting with him. She had a gir jacket and my ex and I LOVE gir... So he only hung out with her for the jacket... at the homecoming dance, he was only with her! Not me! So after the dance I told him it was over but I didn't tell him why (the reason was that I knew he was going to dump me for that butt whole!). I didn't tell him so guess what? He hugged me one last time... and on Monday he was dating her!

Its been 4 months since then, and he's still dating her! I act like I moved on but I haven't! The thing that keeps me hoping that we might get back together is that I think he still loves me! (:

One day my best friend shouted out that I still liked him! So I turned all red because he was sitting in front of me! He turned around and said smiling and kind of laughing "you still like me?!" And of course I changed the subject... then the next day... during 9th period... I was drawing in my spiral and he turns around and starts drawing on my spiral too. I ask him what he was drawing and he said a rose. I asked "what about it" and he said "its you" I said "so its pretty" but I said that sarcastically and he said "yeah and smiled"
Anyway what do I do? It seems like him and his butt whole of a girlfriend will never break up ! :(

P.s I'm new :b

PunkkBarbiee
Jan 20, 2012, 07:43 AM
Okay, well obviously, this guy and yourself are way too young to be thinking you guys are actually in love. I get that you think you love him and that you are going to be with him forever and what not, but you're only 13. We've all been there, but that's not how life works. And honey? If he left you for some other chick without even hesitating, he obviously isn't mature enough to handle you or any other girl. Y'all should focus on school and friends now. Because, friends are forever and boys are whatever. And always remember this short-but-to-the-point advice; chicks before ****s!

Xoxo.
PunkkBarbiee.

Didntdoit
Jan 20, 2012, 12:23 PM
Take it slow you don't want a baby or husband- move on to someone else- no wait just go play some sports keep yourself busy- you have plenty of time for love later I promise!

talaniman
Jan 20, 2012, 03:01 PM
He doesn't love you, and after 4 months you should know that, so move on finally, and stop waiting for them to break up.

BayBaysSister
Jan 21, 2012, 12:49 PM
We Are Around The Same Age And I Know Exactly How You Feel.. You Are Never To Young To Be In love! Something Like This Happened To Me, It's a Possibility That He Loves You But Not In love With You Or He Does Actually Loves You BUT He Probably Love That Girl Too.. And It Is Possible To Love Two People. But Its Really Ask Simple As That Saying "If You Love Someone Let Them Go" Just Let His *** Realize What Hes Missing And Sooner Or Later He Gone RealizeWHe Miss