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Retro9090
Jan 13, 2012, 04:08 PM
Moved to its own question

I'm 21 and my girlfriend is 18, but I think I love my girlfriend, because when I'm not with her, I feel empty, I don't feel complete. I don't know why, and yes she's always right and I'm always wrong. If I say something, I'm wrong like a comment, opinion, I'm wrong whatever she says goes. Like before I met her damn I used to go out a lot with friends have a lot of girls to to talk to, and party a lot, but when I met her, everything changed.

First I didn't pay too much attention to her. If I saw she texted me, I didn't care, and she would cry, and say that she wants me to be with her, and give her all the love in the world. At this time I was still doing what I wanted. Going out partying, getting drunk with friends etc. Until I open my eyes and saw that I was hurting her and that I needed to give love a try and spend more time with her. Ever since then, I'm always with her. I don't go out, I don't party, I don't really see my friends at all.

It's all about her. She is so attached to me. Is it because she lost it to me, because I was her first?. ughh I'm so unhappy I've been with her for about 2 years now on and off, and I just hate why I feel like this I'm unhappy but when I'm not with her I feel empty. She always telling me that she's tired of me. She tired of my dumb comments, and my opinions, she doesn't agree with anything, and she hates it when I'm trying to teach her something. Like for example if I'm teaching her about a problem in the computer, she wants to figure it by herself, and I'm the ******* all the time.

She has future plans that she wants to get marry and have kids, I just stay quiet, and I just smile. And the thing is that we have sex all the time, me I want it all the time, I love it. Me and her have the best sex life, and I feel like I won't ever get that from anyone. I know that if I'm not with her, I would never fall in love again.

What should I do? Every day is an argument about something so dumb. We're both jealous people. I admit that I'm more jealous than she is, but damn I don't know what to do?

talaniman
Jan 14, 2012, 03:03 PM
Try to back up and take some time away from each other. Not a break, but some time for yourselves, and friends, hobbies, and activities without each other.

Then maybe you will appreciate each other more, and not get carried away when irritations, and annoyances pop up.Even enemies can have the greatest sex in the world, but they still hate each other. So do some amazing things together besides sex.

LUST fades, LOVE grows.

jessica_haf
Jan 15, 2012, 10:23 AM
Stop ! And think ! Because I experienced the same situation too ! And I said we need to stay away from each other just for awhile.. wait and see.. you'll see that everything is going to be all right ;)