Hello I'm 15 years old and male... it's kind of embarrassing but does it really hurt your first time having sex?and if so how bad?I really like a girl and she mentioned it today... and yes I will use a rubber

No it doesn't you're a guy.

It hurts the girl, not the guy. I realize you say you will wear a condom, but you realize there is a failure rate don't you? Unless and until you are ready to become a father, refrain from sex.

Just make sure you have no diseases and if she gets pregnant just get rid of the baby. I don't mean to say it like that. People are against abortion because it would be like killing someone. People kill each other all the time so killing an unborn soul shouldn't be so bad.

Just make sure you have no diseases and if she gets pregnant just get rid of the baby. I don't mean to say it like that. People are against abortion because it would be like killing someone. People kill eachother all the time so killing an unborn soul shouldn't be so bad.

That is a terrible terrible thing to say! You really should be ashamed of yourself.

J 9 -> Mate the failure rate is like 98.9%! (Only if you use it properly)
I say yeah go for it. You will be fine.

J 9 -> Mate the failure rate is like 98.9%! (Only if you use it properly)

Um, mate, I'm a nurse who deliveres babies for a living I think I know what the failure rate is. Guess what, mate, not everyone knows how to use a condom properly, particularly 15 year old boys.

So, if the OP is not ready to become a father, don't have sex.

Oh, yeah, and I have 2 children who were conceived while I was on the pill AND using a condom properly.