I met him freshman year and he didn't like me so we ended it. Then one night at church our hands hit the table at the same time and they collapsed on top of each others hands, we kept it there for awhile, until we snatched them away it was like magic and then he texted me that night and we had a talk and shared secrets. Best night of our relationship. Many fights came after that about him liking me, but we always started talking again. Crazy thing is I am falling in love with him and we have never dated.

FAST TO SOPHOMORE YEAR 2011.. I called him on purpose and acted like I butt dialed him and then he called back and said " you don't want talk to me?" I played it off and called him back then he told me I have changed I love you I said whatever because I didn't believe him at the time... He also said what am I and I said I don't know what are you? He said I don't know you tell me? I said I don't know a friend maybe.. He sounded kind of disappointed, then he said I'll talk to you tomorrow, and he just stopped talking to me and wouldn't respond to my text messages.

Then I tried to get my best friend to talk to him for me, and she asked what we talked about he said that stays between me and her, then she said how do you feel about her, and he said I can't tell anyone that! Now in the past he would just say no, so that threw me off, then she finally got it out of him and he said no we are just friends. I was so confused and hurt. So I sent a text saying thanks for breaking my heart once again. I always cared what people think well I don't anymore.

Can anyone tell me what this means and what to do? Sorry its so long! No secrets here!:) I think of him everyday. I spend days crying trying to figure out how to get my man back!

You will never get any where with this as long as you play the coy game, and send friends to do what you should be doing, talking honestly to this guy.

Do it right, or forget it.

I don't believe he was ever yours to begin with. To want your "man" back is a overstatement... he is a kid, both of you are in fact and are just playing the veteran game of cat and mouse. If you want something serious, then act serious, tell him how you feel and see his reaction. However, it seems like he is happy playing this little games.

Get your man back? I don't see he was ever "your man."

You are playing childish games. If you want to be in a relationship, act like an adult. Your best friend is running interference for you? That is a game kids play.