SO this is what's up, I'm 28, male, and I'm gay. I've been with 2 people the past 8 years. I was 20 when I started dating longterm. So it seems like I've been with someone for so long I don't know anything better. They were toxic relationships, but I got comfortable.

I'm not overweight and not busted, but so I don't know what my problem is really, but I feel like my world is gone, not that I have full admissions to sleeping around.

Not sure what you are asking but it appears you don't have a happy healthy life for yourself outside of your past relationships.

Try getting a life of your own, without a partner, and make yourself happy as you heal from past failures. Yourself confidence will return, if you do this for yourself.

Be patient, as this may take a long time. Build a life that you enjoy with friends, family, and activities that make you happy.

Then single life can be the good life for you.

This is the time to do things for yourself. Before worrying about the next relationship, focus on doing things that will make you happy! Surround yourself with things or people that you really appreciate.