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sidd5
Jan 7, 2012, 10:57 PM
Hi my girlfriend is 3 years older to me and I really love her a lot! She is very beautiful and I simply love being with her! We were together for 2 years, and were an average couple like the sweet ones! But sadly she broke broke up with me just for the fact that the age difference might create a problem!

She is very practical and very strong and she moved on very quickly ! But me, I still love her a lot! And I know somewhere she also loves me, but she is behaving weird. Like tells me to give her space, hardly calls, or texts, but when she herself feels like it, she talks sweetly! But when I call she shows attitude! I really want her back! And I am frustrated to think about it everyday! Please help!

Jackets67
Jan 8, 2012, 02:11 AM
Idk what to tell you man, all I can say is if she won't take you back you can't make her. But you need to sit her down and make sure she knows your feelings before you give up. Hope it works out, good luck.

sidd5
Jan 8, 2012, 03:48 AM
@jackets67 I know what you are saying ! She knws it ! I am ready to bring any change she asks for , why doesn't she undrstnd ! (even she knws no 1 can love her d way I do ) :(

Jackets67
Jan 8, 2012, 11:06 AM
Idk sit her down and seriously talk to her tell her that u don't care about tha age difference and neither should she

Homegirl 50
Jan 8, 2012, 11:47 AM
Please do not used text speak. Read the rules.

She has made her position clear. It is time you move on, she has.
Your telling her how you feel is not going to change her mind. This is just the way things work out sometimes.
How old are the two of you?

talaniman
Jan 8, 2012, 07:11 PM
She dumped you and put you in the friend zone so she can explore her world, do what she wants, and keep her options open. She has moved on and unless you let her go, and get over the notion she will change her mind, and take you back, then you will be miserable and never understand that its time for you to move on as well and stop giving her your dignity, and self respect.

I would be unavailable for her chit chat no matter how sweet. That's desperate false hope for YOU, and big, big trouble.

How old are you two?