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rooster8
Jan 4, 2012, 05:51 PM
Ok so here's the story. Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a few months, but at first we had trouble, because we started seeing each other, then she said she is not over her ex, and said she needs a few days. So I gave her a few days, then we tried again, and she said she was depressed, and didn't want to. So I said, I'm not going to try anymore so then we stopped talking for two, or three hours, then she texted me, and told me she was over him, and she was better now.

Then a few weeks later, she said she thinks she fell for me, and I told her I think I fell for her too, and the other night we were texting, and we got on that subject, and I asked her if she thinks she loves me, and she said yeah. Then she texted me, just my name, and I said yes, and she said do you really see this going anywhere? And I said I really want it to go somewhere cause I really really like you. And she said that she don't seeing it going anywhere.

So we stopped seeing each other, because she said she needs space. And I asked her what she wants from me, and she said she wants a great friend she can fall in love with.

talaniman
Jan 4, 2012, 06:27 PM
You may like her a lot, but she is a confused young lady.

How old are you both? Forget her, and give her all the space she wants, for as long as she wants and waste no more time on this air head.

rooster8
Jan 4, 2012, 06:38 PM
Were are both 17 about to be 18 and I can't forget her


Need more advice...


Please help...

talaniman
Jan 4, 2012, 08:01 PM
You have to give yourself a lot more time my friend, and get with friends and family for support, and do things that you enjoy, and this will be but a memory.

Don't sit there like a sap feeling sorry for yourself, get out and enjoy doing what you were doing before she came along.

What you think you are the only guy to be disappointed in love? Happens all the time to everybody. We move on.