Me and my girlfriend of 6 years has been going back to back at each other. She has cheated on me. 1st time like 6 months after we had our son, and I told her I would forget about it, and get over it. But we been fighting a lot. She lives 560 miles from me, and I travel every month to come see her, and my son. But lately we've been fighting about **** that happened in the past we been going back and forth.

Two nights ago, I ask her why don't we have sex, or why you are not in to me like you was before. She said she's tired of fighting, and that's what messing up our sex life and the ways she act toward me.

We took a drive together, and I had ask her when you had sex with the other guy did you get a rush from it, she was like yeah, I did. So I ask do you even get a rush from us? She like said, sex feel like a work out that's why we don't vibe. We try breaking up but she start crying, and said she want to be with me, and no one else and truthfully, I'm only 21, and she's 24, and I know what I want, and its her, but I don't know how to fix this. We have a 2 year old son together.

Sadly guy you have to figure out how to talk, and not argue, and be there for her. Maybe the problem is the distance and you have to find a way to be in the same place, and on the same page.

560 miles between you, and a monthly visit, just doesn't cut it. So how long will you be apart?

I was planing to move there but after cheating I just lost it because if I move I would be moving away from a lot my family meaning my mother and brother and sis and father when she got everything where she is so it would be a hard move for me before it wasn't because there was no cheating or fighting but I've been talking and its like she's hear me and hear the pain that I'm leting off but she just don't care like it's a blank look but its preety fun because when she cheated she was sooo on me and was telling me love you like no to morrow now afther a year or 2 just that blank look