This is really nothing. I just feel the need to put it out there. I know it will pass.

Ex messaged me last night. New Years message, trite. I returned the well wishing. Said she misses me. I did not reply further.

We were always unstable, fighting and breaking up. I kept trying, because I really, really loved her, but she completely screwed me over. Or at least that's how I feel. We broke up for the last time 9 months ago. It was rough.

She has initiated contact with me a few times in this time. She'll tell me she misses me and wants to get together. I hardly react, because despite how I feel, I don't want to beat myself up anymore. I know she loves me too. I do not question that. But she's crazy. It's sad that two people that love each other can't be around each other..

I'm not sure what this is about. Maybe just venting.

It is a nice thought though-- us getting together, laughing, sex, etc.

I know it would be nice, but then it would turn to ****.

2012, woo.

You are right, the contact stirred up old feelings and memories, both the good, and the bad. That's healthy, and will pass.

Love the way you handled it! :D

Hey... I would like to know what happened eventually between you too... I am some kind of in the same mess now :(

He hasn't been back but here is more of the story to help you I hope.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/fell-best-friend-everything-fell-apart-432423.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/dealing-break-up-583001.html

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