RNM
Dec 27, 2011, 07:09 PM
Hi,
I have been with this guy for some months, and he told me the other day that he had been with A LOT of women. This freaked me out because I am worried of how protected he was. I asked him if he was using protection and he said he used it, but still I'm worried. He said he got checked 6 months ago and there was nothing. I just hope I can trust him. I have already gotten something else from someone else a long time ago, so now I'm really nervous. I am nervous that he first told me now that he had been with so many women, and how serious it can be when you don't use protection. I am just really scared, nervous and I needed to talk with someone about this. I am embarrassed and full of regret for the mistakes I have done. I should have protected myself more and be more respectful towards myself. I am not with him anymore because I just need to be alone right now. I am just worried about how much protection he used with all these women.
What can I do to calm myself down ?
Thanks.
I have been with this guy for some months, and he told me the other day that he had been with A LOT of women. This freaked me out because I am worried of how protected he was. I asked him if he was using protection and he said he used it, but still I'm worried. He said he got checked 6 months ago and there was nothing. I just hope I can trust him. I have already gotten something else from someone else a long time ago, so now I'm really nervous. I am nervous that he first told me now that he had been with so many women, and how serious it can be when you don't use protection. I am just really scared, nervous and I needed to talk with someone about this. I am embarrassed and full of regret for the mistakes I have done. I should have protected myself more and be more respectful towards myself. I am not with him anymore because I just need to be alone right now. I am just worried about how much protection he used with all these women.
What can I do to calm myself down ?
Thanks.