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brionca
Dec 26, 2011, 04:53 PM
My ex claims he can steal me back from the new one I'm with so how do I avoid my feelings from my ex(from coming back)
Rizzox21
Dec 26, 2011, 05:54 PM
If your over your ex then I wouldn't worry about those feelings coming back enough to "steal you" from your new significant other. But if you aren't totally over your ex, but your happy with your new significant other I would suggest limiting contact with your ex, so that any feelings you have about him/her won't be stirred up. Hope this helps a little!
umdlotus
Dec 27, 2011, 06:35 AM
Those are head games. He is fishing to see how you react to the comment.
Seeing you happy with someone else probably bothers him. I agree with Rizzox on limiting contact. In fact, if you really want to send a message, nothing works like the old "cold shoulder". Don't return calls or messages, and he'll get the hint.
Remember, your current man deserves undivided attention, so your ex is already stealing some of your time from your new guy when you talk to him or think about him.
=)
-AB
jameelah27
Dec 29, 2011, 12:16 AM
It's hard to get over an ex but there is a reason you moved on so put that in your head its time to move on if not go back to him if you feel that strngly where it bothers but I say never go backwards so my opinion move on you will get over it life doesn't stand still and its to short
brionca
Jan 5, 2012, 12:17 AM
Thank you so much...
brionca
Jan 5, 2012, 12:18 AM
But another thing happen and now I'm feeling this way OK I get what you sayn but I still kind of do like him.. seems like he left me for this girl.cause now all of a sudden he has a gurlfriend the 2 weeks that we've broken up.. crazy right! I know I got to accept it and move on like he did.. but I just want to get him back cause he wrong just for leavn me like that and paying her more attention like I wasn't nothing... thats mmy problem I be needing.. somebody to talk to or a femal advice!/