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LegnaChing
Dec 21, 2011, 06:11 AM
I love this girl very much.We're both 16 years old.All this while I thought she was giving me good signs.She asked my contact number,she called me to her house(That time we hardly know each other),she texted me during her class,she asked me to near her,she calls me for movie,she gives me a cute name and even call me cute.She isn't the flirty type,probably just friendly.All this while I thought she knows I like her.I asked my friend to PRETEND to tell her my secret,that is I like and love her very much.She was shocked.She said she didn't know.She said there is once she suspected,even her friend told her that I'm after her,but she said "nah,impossible"... Anyway,she told my friend(it was through Facebook chat),"If I get involve into this and that,things my get complicated so let it be".. My friend asked "So how?".. and she said "err,ask him don't think too much?"... I didn't know if I did the right thing,I thought I just wanted to find my answer faster.We're kind of like strangers now(not much).. maybe she is trying to avoid me or something?I don't know... I'm not trying to rush.The real reason why I asked my friend to pretend is because of the future.We have 1 more year left in school(we're not in the same school) before we enter college.She is going to Perth,Australia - because her sisters is there,and few of her cousins.I have a sister and cousin too in Australia,too bad they are in Sydney.I'm aware of the fact that if I choose to pursue Computer Science in Perth,universities in Sydney are still better.So that is why I'm going to Sydney.. I was thinking like maybe during breaks I can stop by Perth during my journey back to Malaysia.. You know like trying to keep in touch with her.. Anyway after I graduate I plan to work in Perth too since I prefer the lifestyle there together with another intention that is to be with her and see if it could work out... I need some advice here.. Thanks.

raindrops_
Dec 22, 2011, 11:31 AM
Will maybe you should find someone else maybe she just wants to be friends even though it seemed like she liked you but I'm sorry to say this I think you should find some 1 else that is willing to love you back as much as you love her .

Anyway I hope you end up with some 1 u love and loves you back good luck

Dantes0
Jan 16, 2012, 01:34 AM
Sorry dude. I don't really understand the whole love thing but it seems like you want her. So if you can find, her do it. This era has ways of getting in touch with people easily.