Lost1987
Dec 17, 2011, 08:26 PM
So I'm wit this girl for almost 2 years
And like any other couple we start of normals date for a few months and she finally comes too the point where she admits that I was a time pass and she really wanted too be engaged and married.
So I kind of fall bak and ask myself if I really want this, so I decide to go along with it and start taking this girl very serious too the point where I get emotionally attached and consider taking her very serious.
So I prepare myself because I felt that I'm almost 24 and would like too settle down one day anyway.
So she has this mood problems where she comes bak and forth with different mood swings one day she'll block me the next day she'll want too cuddle so I left this little pot holes slide.
In jan of 2011 she ask me that she wanted too breakup and I felt I had came too far and I tried my best too maintain a healthy relationship I worked towards college and graduating better job more income etc etc
In this time I'm getting closer and closer too her and she keeps cursin yelllin blocking etc etc
Let me me say I never once cursed this girl nor disrespected any characteristic of hers.
She pleads too tlk too my mother and I asure her that after ramadan I will make everything beautiful.
So everything is going well and I simply tell her that I love her and I appreciate her support and being der for me so she calls me "gross"... which surprised me and triggered my anger button so I tell her I dunt want uour love go away... which wasn't any of my fault I never cheated on the girl never cursed her never had done anything so I decided too persuade her and that turned out too be my weakness by the end of auf she claimed that she almost missed me "almost"? Den she asked me too be only friends with her and that even friends get married I declined and left her alone for 2 weeks... and den I texted her asking her how she was and she said it was too late.. so I left her alone a week later she texted me about a random question which had nuthin too do with our breakup.
After that I focused on school and left her alone.. without any attempt to rekindle
In oct she started acting strange again and said she isn't going to give me any chances.. now this is the same girl I busted me *** for been loyal never cheated focused on graduating and bringing a proposal.
On oct 15th I text her and ask too speak too her she sends of her friend too scare me away like I'm really scared?
She claimed she was with me outa fear, and she forced herself.
She lacked the basic of communication and understanding I did everything too make this girl happy
Even told my mom about her finally... she cursed and said a lota harsh words which I dunt make any sense
So her family find her some guy I don't know desperate as her probably and she tells me through an email that she's engaged now at first it's a shock and I have every reason too feel heart broken and mad because my efforts went down the drain.
This girl never valued my efforts never gave me the benefit of the doubt and she has the audacity of saying that I treated her terribly and this guy treats her 100x better.. I don't know if her math is bad or she bipolar.
So anywaz she's engaged too this guy for 7 weeks and she neglects too know who I am she considers me "mistake".
I'm pissed of I'm mad and on top of that she goes and files a police report with her puppet sister in law who flashes her badge like she's csi ny lol but its amusing too me how a guy can be really nice and does everything for a girl in order too propose and she does such low actions in return.
Doesn't justify anything but arrogance and misconception.
Was she infatuated or in love I don't know it's a strange strange situation I gave her nuthin but respect.
ANY THOUGHTS?
And like any other couple we start of normals date for a few months and she finally comes too the point where she admits that I was a time pass and she really wanted too be engaged and married.
So I kind of fall bak and ask myself if I really want this, so I decide to go along with it and start taking this girl very serious too the point where I get emotionally attached and consider taking her very serious.
So I prepare myself because I felt that I'm almost 24 and would like too settle down one day anyway.
So she has this mood problems where she comes bak and forth with different mood swings one day she'll block me the next day she'll want too cuddle so I left this little pot holes slide.
In jan of 2011 she ask me that she wanted too breakup and I felt I had came too far and I tried my best too maintain a healthy relationship I worked towards college and graduating better job more income etc etc
In this time I'm getting closer and closer too her and she keeps cursin yelllin blocking etc etc
Let me me say I never once cursed this girl nor disrespected any characteristic of hers.
She pleads too tlk too my mother and I asure her that after ramadan I will make everything beautiful.
So everything is going well and I simply tell her that I love her and I appreciate her support and being der for me so she calls me "gross"... which surprised me and triggered my anger button so I tell her I dunt want uour love go away... which wasn't any of my fault I never cheated on the girl never cursed her never had done anything so I decided too persuade her and that turned out too be my weakness by the end of auf she claimed that she almost missed me "almost"? Den she asked me too be only friends with her and that even friends get married I declined and left her alone for 2 weeks... and den I texted her asking her how she was and she said it was too late.. so I left her alone a week later she texted me about a random question which had nuthin too do with our breakup.
After that I focused on school and left her alone.. without any attempt to rekindle
In oct she started acting strange again and said she isn't going to give me any chances.. now this is the same girl I busted me *** for been loyal never cheated focused on graduating and bringing a proposal.
On oct 15th I text her and ask too speak too her she sends of her friend too scare me away like I'm really scared?
She claimed she was with me outa fear, and she forced herself.
She lacked the basic of communication and understanding I did everything too make this girl happy
Even told my mom about her finally... she cursed and said a lota harsh words which I dunt make any sense
So her family find her some guy I don't know desperate as her probably and she tells me through an email that she's engaged now at first it's a shock and I have every reason too feel heart broken and mad because my efforts went down the drain.
This girl never valued my efforts never gave me the benefit of the doubt and she has the audacity of saying that I treated her terribly and this guy treats her 100x better.. I don't know if her math is bad or she bipolar.
So anywaz she's engaged too this guy for 7 weeks and she neglects too know who I am she considers me "mistake".
I'm pissed of I'm mad and on top of that she goes and files a police report with her puppet sister in law who flashes her badge like she's csi ny lol but its amusing too me how a guy can be really nice and does everything for a girl in order too propose and she does such low actions in return.
Doesn't justify anything but arrogance and misconception.
Was she infatuated or in love I don't know it's a strange strange situation I gave her nuthin but respect.
ANY THOUGHTS?