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VintageHeart93
Dec 17, 2011, 09:51 AM
We never hold hands or anything, when I do try to kiss him (a peck) or hold hands, he backs away or removes his hand from mine. He usually does this when we're out out in public with a group of friends. After a while I gave up all together. It upsets me sometimes. We don't talk much either when in a big group. I'm not near him a lot in public either, and I feel weird following him around because I sense he finds it annoying.

When we're alone it's a different story of course. When we're at his guy friends house we mess around and laugh and stuff. Is this weird? I would love to do it once or twice, not all the time.. He use to not be like that... I feel a little jealous when I see all the other couples (my friends) doing it.

talaniman
Dec 17, 2011, 01:25 PM
Same guy?

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/how-do-get-ex-back-577281.html

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/boyfriend-wants-me-transfer-his-school-597661.html

VintageHeart93
Dec 17, 2011, 02:48 PM
-_- yep lol I just talked to him about it

ilovemusic8
Dec 28, 2011, 12:48 AM
Well, hmmm... u said he didn't used to be lke that! From what I got, if he doesn't want to do any of that its either:

1) you are always there, and asking him why why why all the time
2) maybe you don't give him enough space
3) he may not feel comfortable with you in public (have you changed your style?)
4) or maybe because like I said he doesn't get enough space to be able to be only around his guy friends, and that's why he may ignore you! Try and give him space, do your thing, id say stop being there for like a week( this may get him thinking and he will look for you)