I will say we do it after a good night out, she gives some of the best that I've had maybe that's why I get upset when I can't have it. We have 2 kids, so I feel when they are not around, I let her rest, but after that please tend to my needs, I try not to stress her

It just drives me crazy when I realize that I don't get it when I want it, even when the kids aren't around, we both rest but after that if I want attention, I feel its only right that I get it.

Grow up guy, and don't act like your kids when they can't have a cookie. When kids aren't around a female needs and deserves to rest as much as she wants without you bugging her about your needs, or acting like the kid who didn't leave.

You want more, then take her out more, and get some baby sitters. One of the biggest turn offs for a female is being OBLIGATED to take care of YOUR needs, and make her feel like a piece of meat.

What if she needs more than sex, and rest from the kids? I mean do you even know what your female really needs, if its not sex?

Talaniman Rule - Make love to the mind and the body will follow.

Have you even talked to her about this? What did she say?

Well, when she wants to she'll do it with you. So, just wait and you'll a time worth waiting for.

I respect your answer, but We been together for 8 years I get baby sitters I also take her out, we have other issues but sex is the one that I chose to bring to you its times when I don't even bother to ask because I know she will turn me down, it was never like this from the beginning