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laylay1284
Dec 16, 2011, 02:36 PM
Okay so now I'm in the 8th grade now but still in love with him... Okay I knew him since in elementary school like 3rd or 2nd grade. We dated but we became friends again... I mean we were young and didn't knew what love was.

Before 5th grade I had to go live with my dad and step mom in Virginia and had to go for a family issue (thats a long story). My mom said I had to go stay with my father, which I kind of hardly knew, but anyway when I left south Carolina I was sad because I left my family, friends, mom, and the guy I liked, behind.

In the 7 th grade I got in contact with him by Facebook and we just caught up and stuff he told me that he misses me, still loves me, and that he wish I was there. I wanted to go out with him but he said that he don't like long distance relationships because it's hard to keep in contact and stuff and that he's not able to see me.

Let me just say its not about the sex because we know were young and stuff but to me I like his personality and he said the same to me as well and that sex will have to wait until we're older you know...

So I'm in Hawaii right now as a 8th grader and me and the guy are friends but I'm deeply in love with him it feels like a first love you know but my feelings for him are true. He kind of changed though like through his voice and his secrets omgee, but I did some stupid things as wel,l but I can't move on, but he said we should because were so far apart and stuff and that kind of hurt me because love is greater than distance but I agree with him so I tried to move on but I can't. I can't see him or nothing. If I was living with my mom things would be the opposite and I would be able to but the reason for leaving like I said is a long story.

What shall I do and sorry for the long long long message, LOL

talaniman
Dec 16, 2011, 05:31 PM
Sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted but even the older more experienced people have trouble with long distance online relationships.

It takes time to move on but making new friends, and activities where you are will help a lot. Maybe stop contacting him until you do would be the way to go for a while.

Good Luck.

supersinger
Dec 20, 2011, 06:40 AM
Hey I'm sorry to say but you have entered a position your stuck