What does this mean? He takes me out in public, is affectionate in public. Tells friends about me. Doesn't care if co-workers see us together.

It Means he doesn't care about his wife, family, kids, or yours either so he certainly doesn't care about YOU, just himself.

I guess I'm only in it for myself as well, because I'm doing the same thing. Maybe we both want to get caught so they will end it.

So end it, why do you not divorce your husband?

It means that both you and he have little consciense, completely no respect for yourself, the other and most certainly your spouse.

He is a selfish, lying cheating idiot! What's your excuse for doing the wrong thing?

Look it's so easy for that have never been there before to judge. But you can't help who you fall for. I'am not saying that makes it OK but your only human. We all fall some time but it's what we do when we get back up. I don't know if that helps you any but I two have been there before I even have two kids by him and live in him and his family home now wife move out and I move in. But they are still married and my oldest child is now 5 and 2nd child just turn one. The heart wants what the heart wants. My you have his heart now!missjbtheboss

I was 16 about to be 17 he was 20 something. I think back now that I'am a lot older . And I now know I could not see pass what I wanted that's why at the time I though it was OK. But you know if you start a relationship with a married man your only hurting yourself. Because at the end of every day he goes home to his wife and kids. And you best believe every thang his doing too his wife with you his going to do it to you with some one else. But that's that. Chance you have to be willing to take when your with some one else's huband . And in the end your going to wish you would have not even both because it's all going to come back on you no matter how you look at it. I'am now 27 I will be 28 in Feb. And my life have could have been so much better hade I not took the path that I took. So just think about that the next time you go too meet up with him and he tell you somethinge came up.missjbtheboss