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navienguyenie
Dec 14, 2011, 05:58 PM
Hi, my name is Sumiko Akira. I used to get bully a lot. Many time it just hurt when the first friend you met when you first started school turn all around. That person almost became my best friend when she start become mean and then a bully. I wanted to tell her how much she bugged me and how much she annoyed me but sometime she might get the wrong message so I hope you will understand and help me out.

navienguyenie
Dec 14, 2011, 06:04 PM
I finally got an answer and it's to be who you are, sometime you just had to ignore them and they'll leave you alone. They might get bore and the whole point of bullying you is to make you mad and they expect you to react to them so just don't care about them...

Fr_Chuck
Dec 14, 2011, 07:05 PM
If someone is a bully to you, you ignore them, and don't let them know it even bothers you. You stand up to them, and don't care if it hurts their feelings,

You have to respect yourself, have honor in yourself above all. By standing up for yourself, you stop their control of being the bully.